Surrogacy Doula

A surrogacy doula is your unwavering ally through the unique journey of surrogacy-here to support the surrogate, the intended parents, and everyone in between. I provide compassionate, hands-on care, clear info, and emotional grounding as you navigate this beautiful, complex path together.

Whether it's preparing for embryo transfer, navigating pregnancy milestones, or supporting postpartum healing, I'm here to hold space, answer questions, and keep your chosen family feeling strong and connected.

Support Could Look Like

Surrogate Support

  • Emotional support during pregnancy, birth, and postpartum

  • Comfort measures during labor (massage, positioning, breathing techniques)

  • Advocacy for their birth preferences

  • Coordinating rest, recovery, and postpartum healing support

  • Providing education and reassurance through the process

Intended Parents Support

  • Guidance on preparing for the baby's arrival (even if not pregnant themselves)

  • Emotional support during pregnancy milestones and the birth process

  • Logistical help at the hospital/birth center (paperwork, room setup, supplies)

  • Coaching for newborn care, feeding, and bonding

  • Navigating NICU or special care if needed

  • Support with first nights home

Support for Both

  • Facilitating clear, respectful communication between surrogate and intended parents

  • Helping both parties understand the birth process and what to expect

  • Providing neutral, compassionate emotional support

  • Creating a comfortable, inclusive birth environment for everyone

  • Offering postpartum follow-up for emotional well-being on both sides

  • Helping integrate the baby's care while

  • respecting the surrogate's recovery

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FAQs About Surrogacy Doulas

  • Yes, doulas are trained to balance the needs of both the surrogate and intended parents, ensuring everyone feels respected and included in the birth journey.

  • Having a doula ensures both the surrogate and intended parents feel supported, connected, and cared for, creating a smoother, more positive birth experience for everyone.

  • A doula complements existing support by offering professional knowledge, unbiased guidance, and experience with the unique dynamics of surrogacy.

  • Many families bring a doula on board during pregnancy, but they can also step in closer to birth or postpartum depending on your needs.